Sad Loss

andyv8van · Post by **andyv8van** » Fri Jan 07, 2011 8:54 pm

Hi

On Tuesday 4th january my partner of 17 years Ros passed away peacefully in hospital.

she has left big hole in my heart and my life

i will be away from the Forum to get my life back on track, see you all when i return.

Andy

ian.stewart · Post by **ian.stewart** » Fri Jan 07, 2011 9:43 pm

Andy, Im sure I speak as a group, OUR THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU, It is indeed a sad loss for anybody, let alone one of our own, take your time, time will heal the rough edges, but not the good times,

If you want a chat anytime im sure there is somebody on here most of the time, Just come back when you are ready, you will be missed, so come back when you feel you are up to it,
GOOD LUCK MATE,

mgbv8 · Post by **mgbv8** » Fri Jan 07, 2011 10:06 pm

Andy!
I'm so sorry that this has come to you at such a young age. As Ian said. You have all our thoughts with you at this time. And you also have a lot of PM addresses if you feel you want to share your grief with any of us. I've been with my missus for 30 years now. We are both in our early 50's and I have to admit to being a bit of a wimp as I sometimes think about how I would feel if Gill went before me??

I have had to go through the grief of losing both my parents when I was in my 30's. At that time I was left in a daze and thinking that I was in a permanent dream state and that is had not actually happened.
This was bad enough. But the thought of losing my partner shakes me to the very core.
I'm glad that you have had the courage to share this with your mates on here at this sad time Andy.

If you are like me. Ros would have been the centre of your life. The person who kept you on the straight and narrow. And the person who also supported you when you longed to go off the straight and narrow. You know what I mean eh?

My thought are with you right now Andy.

We will be glad to hear from you when you feel the time is right.

Regards
Perry and family

Crazy · Post by **Crazy** » Sat Jan 08, 2011 12:13 am

I am so sorry to hear of your loss Andy, my thoughts are with you right now, and at least she passed away peacefully.

Post by **katanaman** » Sat Jan 08, 2011 11:02 am

Same from me Andy, sorry to hear about your loss. I know you have a few of us on Facebook as well so you can keep in touch through there as well if you feel like a chat.

Post by **Coops** » Sat Jan 08, 2011 11:22 am

Same from me and my family Andy, so so sorry to hear this sad news.
like all the others have said, if you fancy a chat, we have PM addresses or emails and like Marki said you also have s few of us on face book mate,

take as long as you need mate, and come back when you feel upto it, your membership is safe on here so dont worry mate.

kiwicar · Post by **kiwicar** » Sat Jan 08, 2011 5:16 pm

Hi Andy
Very sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts are with you, I know I am repeating what is said above but if I can help with support in any way please be in touch through the forum or a PM and I'll pass on my mobile number. I tend to be on the forum early in the day so am around when more sensible soles are still asleap. If you need to talk to someone at an odd time of the day please be in touch.
best wishes
Mike

Speed 8 · Post by **Speed 8** » Sat Jan 08, 2011 8:04 pm

Hi Andy,

Very sad!

My thought are with you my friend. I wish you all the best and much strength in these tough times...

unstable load · Post by **unstable load** » Sun Jan 09, 2011 6:28 am

Andy,
My deepest condolences, sir! You are in my thoughts and see you back here when you are ready!

dbv8 · Post by **dbv8** » Sun Jan 09, 2011 2:32 pm

Hi Andy
we havent met yet i dont think but as a fellow car nut and knowing how you must feel right now i thought i would add my 2p worth.

I lost my partner suddenly 4 years ago last October, Ann-marie was only 38.
As Perry said about his parents, i to felt like i was in a dream and it takes time to accept and come to terms. It seems like nothing will ever get better or back to 'normal' but time will help.

Remember the good times mate.
My thoughts are with you at this time.

Derek

Mark · Post by **Mark** » Sun Jan 09, 2011 3:00 pm

You have my deepest condolences.

regards

Mark

Robrover · Post by **Robrover** » Fri Jan 28, 2011 2:53 am

So sorry to hear of your loss. Devastating to lose one's partner. I can hardly imagine how bad that would be for you.

When my dad died I found it hard to get any sort of motivation to go on doing the things I used to. I couldn't see the point of it all, I too was in a sort of daze or mental decline. That was 12 months ago now and I'm still coming to terms - I guess only time will provide some resolution.

Take care mate.

seight · Post by **seight** » Fri Jan 28, 2011 8:22 am

Terribly sad news Andy, our thoughts are with you.

Mike

andyv8van · Post by **andyv8van** » Tue Mar 22, 2011 7:55 pm

Hi Guys,

Well After getting myself out of the life hole i found myself in.......

Back I am, Doing things i want too and not worry about what people might think i should be doing

getting on with my Life................

Thank you all for the kind words left

Andy

kiwicar · Post by **kiwicar** » Tue Mar 22, 2011 8:00 pm

Hi Andy
good to have you back on here, very much missed your input, look forward to your posting in the future.
very best regards
Mike