The big red one is the rear main seal, I guess that you just push it into place but I would not be surprised if I'm wrong!
The little crosses are to help you pray that the motor will run again!
Actually they are "crucifix seals" which go near the main bearings somewhere!
I think that it is fairly obvious once the sump is off. Apparently you do not cut them off flush with the gasket face but leave them sticking up (maybe 2mm).
If I had the manual with me I could give you more info!
Pete